"A Real Man"

I have heard women say that they want a "real man" and when they get one, they do not recognize him because of their past history with so called men that have a commitment problem or one that has an infidelity problem, one that do not have any ambition, or self esteem, anger management, a “wanna” be thug. One that thinks beating women elevates his status as a “man” a person that have no respect of others or the women that he is with, therefore no respect for himself. A lot of women have actually never seen a real man because daddy left home when they were a child and never looked back. So they have a problem with that "real man" so they to want to change him into this make shift fantasy as to what they perceive is a “real man”. The problem is they never had a real “in your face example” so when God sends them one after years of praying, they really have no clue, and yes he is everything they could have possibly prayed for. He loves God therefore he is loving, kind, strong but gentle with her, has all the attributes of man that will provide, be protective, has great ambition but time for her, supportive and caring. Men that will do anything for the woman that he loves, including to his chagrin, change for her. When they finally get him, some have a tenancy to treat him like garbage, they do this cause they are waiting for him to be just like “every other man” that they have had the pleasure of being abused by. And when he do not display that behavior, these women tend to create excuses for why this cannot be the right man, he is “smothering” or some other nonsensical  excuse such as this isn’t real, he is going to change, he is just like……… Some women when they get what God has sent them need to check themselves, let go of that excess baggage and look within.